If your high school sex-ed experience was anything like mine, it was just informative enough to render all the barely-pubescent kids utterly confused. Most topics were kept vague, and some were skipped over entirely. Well, you can consider this your guide to the best anal sex toys for beginners if you're looking to expand your horizons, but don't know where to begin. First, a few ground rules: "The most important piece of advice for anyone looking to try a sex toy for anal fun aside from use lube, lube, and more lube : 'without a base, without a trace,'" Hodder says.
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The emotional overture I feel before boarding a roller coaster is about the same as I feel right before embarking on anal sex : excitement, followed by mild hesitation and nervousness. The thing about every single roller roaster ride I've been on so far is that I've loved them all. No matter how many butterflies are tap-dancing on the bottom of my stomach as the ride lurches up a steep hill, the thrill I feel at the end of the ride is always worth it. This isn't to say that everyone who likes roller coasters will also like anal sex. The takeaway from this metaphor is that it's very much fine to be nervous about it beforehand—even if you're totally sure and you should be that this is something you want to be doing.
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Which is a good thing! Women who've been there and done that say it's a welcome addition to their sexual repertoire. But just like you must walk before you can run, you must have some sort of anal foreplay before you go for the full monty of anal sex. Or, you know, you can do butt play and leave it at that forever, because it's your booty and you make the rules. You hopefully already know the basics: ALWAYS use lube, never put something that was in your butt in your mouth or vagina, and butt plugs are your friend.
Anal sex can be intimidating at first, but you can make it easier. Anal sex can be such a fun, exciting and super-pleasurable experience. However, lots of people get it so wrong that anal sex has a bad name.